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Sam William's avatar

Hey this really resonated. Especially the idea that if something isn’t coming together in the timeframe we want, it’s valuable to take a step back and ask ourselves the questions you recommended. The idea that theres an invisible hand of timing at play in our lives is reassuring and a really interesting perspective to reflect on further. Thanks.

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Anna Drabik's avatar

Thank you, Samuel. I really appreciate your note. I've looked back on certain events afterwards, and only then was able to connect the dots of why something didn't work in the timeframe I had allotted in my own head. x

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Let's Reset's avatar

Really beautiful and hopeful piece - thank you!

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Anna Drabik's avatar

Thank you - there is hope! We just need to share all the glimmers of it with one another, so we can start seeing all the Amplifiers. Otherwise, we might not think it's possible. Sending a big hug and so much hope your way x

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Vinito's avatar

Wisdom beautifully written … 🙏

I have been single for 5 years, and find that there is a part of me that is longing for a loving intimate relationship. But being alone and travelling the world now, for 5 years, I also truly appreciate this time, a gift to myself, and have discovered the joy and freedom of being alone. I have also grown and evolved in self discovery over these passing years. I am (mostly) happy and at peace with myself enjoying the experience of each moment. Life is good and I am grateful.

I know I am held in love by life …

… and still, in the background, there is the longing for an intimate relationship to dance in love, and loving ♥️

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Anna Drabik's avatar

Thank you so much. Your message really resonates with me.

I was in a very similar place, so I can empathize. 7+ years single, and though I loved my time and appreciated my friends and my life, I also felt that I wanted to find that romantic connection. Not because I felt incomplete, but because partnership felt like the next stage and evolution of my growth for me. It sounds like you're doing so much inner work and really loving the life you have. Stay in that magnetism. Continue doing what you're doing. A big, beautiful love will come, and I have a feeling that when it does, you'll be so grateful you waited for it. And if it helps, I kept repeating the Rumi quote to myself any time I felt the desire for partnership: "What you seek is seeking you."

If you ever want to chat, feel free to dm me xx

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